Tuesday, July 26, 2016

Here and Gone


Company:  “Glad to see them come, glad to see them go”; “house guests are like fish, after three days they get old”…. We’ve all heard them.  Well FOJTE and wife left last Friday, and believe me, none of those applied.  We had a wonderful time with them from start to finish.  Not getting maudlin here and I know many readers share the experience, but it leaves a big hole when they leave.  Makes the distance between Maryland and STL seem long.  Nothing beats being with family.

While here, we had a great time.  We participated in a special wine tasting, got a private tour of a local flower farm, and with clever planning on our part, we never ate “in” once, except on the final evening when FOJTE manned the grill and cooked up a wonderful stuffed pork loin for dinner.  And, poor thing, he had to struggle with Kingsford charcoal and a common Weber Grill when he is used to the Big Green Egg and genuine hardwood charcoal at home.  But with his culinary skills he pulled off a great dinner.

During their stay, we hit all the important local (independent) restaurants (In chronological order):  Elements; The Ruddy Duck Seafood House (St. George Island); The Dry Dock; and The Front Porch. All were very good, but of course (in this case) the food was only a supporting actor to the company, with the food just enhancing the experience.  Good times.  I suppose the tug of family (together with crumbling body parts) will ultimately drive us from the digs to St. Louis.

And while we’re on the subject of restaurants (we never stray far), there was an interesting article in an older (April! – with “new” eyes, I can see comfortably again!) issue of Bon Appétit, on (gasp) a restaurant chain.  It was penned by their deputy editor Andrew Knowlton who used to go by the moniker of “The Foodist”.  Anyway, it concerned the Hillstone Restaurant Group, which owns forty-eight restaurants under 15 names in 15 states.  In the introduction he does admit that “In my world, there’s no more pejorative word to describe a restaurant than chain”.  We’ve kind of kicked around what exactly constitutes a “chain” and won’t rehash it here.  This group kind of is in that gray area, between what most people think of as chains (Olive Garden, Texas Roadhouse, and Quick service McDonald types) and one off independents (Elements, Dry Dock, etc.).   Anyway, he says that Hillstone properties are some of his favorite places to eat in the country.  They range from (2) Hillstone’s in NYC (Hillstone); (3) Houston’s in Atlanta; Rutherford Grill in Rutherford, California; (3) R&D Kitchen in other California locations: Santa Monica, Yountville, Newport Beach; to name a few.  He includes description of meals in some of those places.  What raises them above other venues is the quality of the food, and service touches like each server only has three tables (all venues have numbers of tables divisible by three);  each table is screwed to the floor (no rocking); and a Martini glass that was replaced with a cool one half way through.  Stuff like that.  I peeked at a few of the dinner menus of places above and while they are not identical, they do have many dishes in common. Apparently Spinach and Artichoke dip are common throughout.  Chicken Waldorf salad, Hawaiian Rib Eye steak are also favorites.  Every Hillstone “I had learned, is mind bogglingly consistent, because you know what every great chef strives for, more than a creation of a ground breaking dish or Michelin stars?  Consistency”. 

Anyway, there are photos of the food which of course looks great.  When travelling you might keep your eye out.  Interesting article. 

And while not exactly related (hopefully) a couple of observations on….. Doctor’s Offices!  As we advance  in age, and increase in frailty we tend to spend more time there.  Generally not a place you want to go to, more often than not you’re there because you have to be.  So, here’s situation one:  what do you do when you come across an acquaintance?  Not necessarily a good friend who probably knows your issues anyway, but say somebody you usually see at some social function all glammed up, and here you are sitting in an oncology, cardiac, or endoscopy waiting room and there they are…what do you say?   Hi!... a) what are you doing here?  Bad, bad; b) how are you?  well, you wouldn’t be in the damn doctor’s office if you were fine; c) nice to see you?  No, it’s not, you’re both are very awkward; d) think we’ll get rain?  Stupid, but safe.  Tough situation.  Better to avert eyes and hope no contact.

And that carries over to the staff.   After you spend your twenty to thirty minutes reading years old People Magazines with some inane TV show blaring the nurse finally comes to get you. This procedure varies also.   Some open the door and shout “MOODY”, some use both names (I always get “William” and people turn and stare).  Rarely, they use first names, which I think is nice, or at least better.   And once headed toward the inner sanctum what’s the first question they ask?  How are you?   See b) above.   And lastly when you’re in the exam room their last words are inevitably “Doctor will be right in”.  Next time you hear this, start your stop watch.  If “right in” turns out to be less than 15 minutes, I’ll buy you a drink.  Next time I see you outside of a medical facility.

Meanwhile, enjoy the “heat dome”.   And you may have to adjust how you


DFD

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